Here are Some Examples Of the Advice You Get, at killthecrap.com

Okay, so maybe I'm not the best speller; it's on my "Crap to Kill" list. Maybe my grammer isn't the best in the world... working on it. So what then, if I don't do those two things well... can I do?

When you get a copy of "Kill the Crap In Dating: For Men" and read through it cover to cover, you'll find some instructions. The instructions give you a code and directions to gain access to two things. The first is an excellent conversation piece you can use when you're on a date with a girl and can't think of something to say. The second is access to me. That's right, you follow the directions and you get my undivided attention through 15 free dating advice questions. I've just started this program, and already many people are taking advantage of it and benefitting from it.

It's fine to disagree, but many times my ideas have been attacked; not by people who disagree, but by people that DO agree. Huh? How's that work, you ask? Well, they hear the idea, they know it will work, that makes them realize they need to change their life if they want it to work for them. But they don't want to change, because to change would mean there was something wrong with them in the first place, to say something WAS wrong with them, is insulting. They become defensive, they try to lash out, but can't find any ammunition, so like any desperate person looking to justify their over-reacting... they make something up.

So before we go any further, let me address certain common misconceptions.

1: I'm trying to change everybody into me. : fffffFFUCK no. I'm showing men that are willing to learn, how to better understand themselves, how to live thier life AS their true self more precisely and to understand exactly why women find the REAL them, sexy as hell. I help you, find you.

2: I'm teaching men to treat women like objects. : Okay I've only gotten this retarded asssssumption from two types: A: Loser guys that haven't gotten laid in a decade and never will. B: Ugly ass femanist women plagued by their own pathetic lonliness. What I teach men to do, is persue what they REALLY want. Ladies, how many times has a guy told you he "just wants to be friends" and you knew he wanted a whole lot more then friendship? Why do we need pathetic little lies in our society?

Guess what... we don't. I never lie unless I do, lol, or better put, I tell lies because I'm human and am far from perfect, but work every day to live the kind of life where I never feel the need to lie. And I'm well on my way, you can do the same. What I DON'T teach ANYONE to do is to live the life they are trained to.

It's my opinion that living any life but the life that was given to you is completely retarded, most people live the life that was forced on them... congratulations to those who accept what is forced on them... you're a pussy... nobody cares. If you want to learn how to seize the moment, carpe diem, start a conversation with anyone, anywhere, speak your mind without fear, recover from your mistakes, overcome your fears, learn from your mistakes and improve with each new woman you meet... GET THE DAMN BOOK. If not... why are you reading this? Exactly, you ARE looking for all these things.

The thought of having to change everything you spent so much energy fabricating may seem too intimidating. Maybe you point out mistakes in my punctuation as a reason for not getting the book. Maybe you say "his language is offensive, I'm not going to buy a book that encourages such behavior". Maybe you get high and mighty in your own unique way. I've met a thousand people like you. And of that thousand, maybe 100 of you are willing to overcome your fears. Of those 100, maybe 10 will actually look for help from an outside source to do it. And of those 10 maybe 1 is going to actually listen to the information they find.

Ya know what, I could sit here and convince all the men all over the world that this book is what's going to dramatically improve their dating life. I could come up with fancy marketing, and sweep across the country with ads that persuade and tantalize you with false hope etc. And in all honesty, it would work, and you would play follow the leader, and once enough people had bought the book, or you saw the commercial on TV enough times, you'd get it, take two years to read it, and then after maybe 5 more years you'd finally start using the techniques and turn into the man you've always wanted to be. And you'll get laid, as much as you want, maybe even make some babies along the way, or meet the woman of your dreams etc.

But I decided a long time ago that, ya know what? Not everyone deserves a better dating life. Some people SHOULD be the 40 year old virgin, why? Because the last thing this world needs is more hesitation, more self doubt, and more lazyiness getting in the way of our cultural development. No, the only person I care about is that 1 out of a 1000. The ones looking for a better tomorrow, because those are they people that deserve a better tomorrow.

We learned to walk, we learned to eat, we learned to speak, we even learn to make friends, 1 out of 1000 learns to date the way they want to date.

3: This is just a trick to get my money. Oh please, shut up. It's 30 freakin dollars. That's not exactly a magic bag of gold now is it? Read the damn articles on this site. Trust me, I'm not here for your damn money, the money just proves to me that you're willing to make the investment, if you can't invest 30 freakin dollars in yourself... you're probably homeless... in which case the fact that you're on the internet tells me you're pretty damn resourceful... you rock. Any other case is just you not wanting to deal with something that's been bothering you for a long time. This site is called KILL the Crap dot com. Not "put the crap off until tomorrow because you're too much of a pussy to deal with it today... dot com. The only people I have any time for, are the ones willing to open their minds, listen intelligently, and respond intelligently. The rest of you I don't give two craps about.

With that in mind, I do understand that when you're at the begining of a journey toward self improvement... it's extremely tough, it's scary, it's lonely as hell, and it's confusing, not to mention a cocktail of about a million other aweful thoughts. I totally understand the kind of bravery that you have. But know that it's not enough, without the will to act, bravery means nothing. So if you have what it takes to seek what you're looking for, yes, at the risk of being tricked, bamboozled, or whatever the hell else you're worried about, then you've got what it takes to have some of my time. I don't spend my time, I invest it. Which is why I EXPECT you to first invest in yourself. Duh.

Just, don't be afraid.

Here's an example of me SPENDING my freakin time and of course, wasting it. I think the retard's name was "Mike" from California. This jackass calls me up, says he read some of my articles and my book and was wondering if he could ask me some questions. Of course I said yes. The guy read articles AND the book right? He obviously invested in himself, so I'll invest in him. So we talk, and he starts asking me questions like "this girl did this so what should I do?". First off, the book isn't a "do this, do that" sort of book. It's a book that helps you to understand women, to understand yourself, and to understand how women interpret what you do and say. It shows you how to look inside yourself for what you already know to do. Future sequals to this book will cover "techniques" and "suggestions" for things to do, but for now the first book is basically here to Kill The Crap in how you view dating, filter the drama nonsense and crap out of your head, and after all that crap's been cleared out, it offers you a more clear way of thinking, a more logical approach to the dating world, because in the end "this and that" doesn't really matter. Your personality, how you view the world, and the way you approach every situation you're in, and how you handle every situation, does matter.

Annnnnyway, after about three questions that are all broken down to "what should I do?" of which all of those questions I answered by delving into the more important issue: why he's even asking these questions in the first place; I talk to him about his insecurities, his fears, and his lack of will to act... and so he responds "well, whatever, I mean what should I do? Because I really like this girl and I don't want to screw it up with her." At which point I bluntly asked: "You didn't buy the book did you?". He replied "Well.... I mean, my roommate bought a copy of your book, and I read it once real quick but I didn't really understand it." So I interrupted "Okay so go read it again and then we'll talk." and then he says " Well... Um... he moved back home, so now I can't read it." "okay so get the book, read it, and then we'll talk." "Well, okay, I'll do that, but I recently lost my job and unemployment-"

I mean are you listening to this bullshit? How stupid was I? I'm sitting talkin to this freakin LOSER for like 45 minutes before it dawns on me that he's just fishing for free advice. The reason why that shit pisses me off, is because... it costs 30 freakin dollars. If you're that cheap, either A: your problems really aren't that big. Or, since you took the time and effort to fish for free info the more likely possibility would be B: Shoot yourself.

Now you know why I've hidden the code inside the book... because only people that actually FREAKIN READ THE DAMN BOOK will know where it is. And only people with the will to act and the desire to invest in themself will follow the instructions to the letter. I killed the crap in giving dating advice. YE-FREAKIN-HAW.

Now, someone NOT that different from this guy, did have what it took to choose a different path. I'd say the only difference when I first spoke to this other guy named Tom was that he possessed... the will to act. He was just as insecure, just as jumpy, just as doubtful, but he possessed the will to act. He spent the money, he READ THE DAMN BOOK, followed the instructions and even when he was asking the "what should I do" questions he LISTENED when I addressed the bigger issues. So, with his permission, I'm now going to show you the kind of people I DO (pause for effect) have time for:

(the only thing I'm going to change is the names of other people that I didn't get permission from, click here to turn to the next page -->)