KILL THE CRAP IN DATING: FOR MEN

Why do women test?

This is a subject that is explained more in depth in our first book "Kill The Crap In Dating: For Men".

Okay, so what is the deal with women and testing guys? It's stupid right? It only causes turmoil, women are just crazy and need drama in order to be happy? Well... almost.

The thing about testing is that it's... actually there for a reason.

I know, it sucks, but you either have to buckle down and handle these tests, or keep getting dumped, it's up to you.

So if tests are necessary then why are they there?

    I was in a book store the other day and wandered over to the self help section on my way over to the business section and this really colorful book amongst black and white covers caught my eye. I picked it up, it was titled something like "Conquering the Urge" I can't remember what it was exactly, that's not the point. The book was an informational handbook for women on controlling their sexual attraction to guys who are mean and abusive.

    Okay... there's a book... written by a woman... not in the comedy section but in the self help section... written FOR other women, meaning this is something very common... and it's SELLING. So what does this tell you? It tells you that women cannot make sense of their own desires.

If they can't make sense of their own desires, then maybe that's why you don't understand why she's flipping out about stupid things. She doesn't understand it either. But I ask you this... if the concept of the "strongest survive" is true, then this trait was so strong, so useful, so necessary, that it survived for more then thousands of years. Which means that it was effective in causing mating. So what's going on?

The Following is an excerpt from the book "Kill The Crap In Dating: For Men" (wonder where I got the title)

" Take ten guys, put them in a room, and ask them how they're feeling, what are you going to get? NOTHING. The room is going to get very quiet, because when a man doesn't understand something, he freezes. And takes it upon himself, to independently devise a layout of his feelings before coming forward, for fear of wasting people's time. He wont speak unless he thinks it's worth it.

Take ten girls, put them in a room, and ask them how they're feeling. They'll chat, and the room will be brimming with conversation. THEY'LL talk for HOURS, and at the end of it all, they still wont have any clue what they're feeling.

So when a man FEELS something is wrong, what does he do? He gets quiet, he freezes, he goes off on his own, and tries to create a plan to explain what he's got going on inside, and only after he thinks it makes sense will he step forward and discuss it.

And when a woman FEELS something is wrong, she'll chatter up a storm for five hours, and at the end of it, she still wont have any clue.

So why does this happen? It's genetic, that's the way people are, it's how they're wired. So why is it, through the evolution of man, such a chaotic load of crap survived? What is it about this seemingly retarded process that made it so effective that only people who adhered to it were able to mate, reproduce and raise offspring that would eventually also mate and reproduce? Well, it survived because it worked. Why did it work?

The system works because human nature is to not give a crap. The only way for the species to survive is to create a NEED to survive. The only way to create a need to survive is to create a NEED to mate. So if a woman suddenly loses attraction for you, she loses the need to mate with you, thus indicating that your genes aren't really compatible. It doesn't matter if you are perfect, because if you mate with a woman who's genes aren't compatible with yours, even if she's perfect, your offspring wont be. "

The thing about women's tests... is they reveal who you really are deep inside. It reveals the hidden you. If you are an attractive man who walks around with a leather jacket on, talks shit to anybody who looks at you funny, and carry a gun, but the second a woman tests you, you freak out and don't know what to say... guess what? You're a pussy. And you start out SEEMING attractive because of your shell, but that's why a woman tests you, because she's interested. She sees this sexy guy and wants to see if he's really sexy, she talks to him a bit and tests him, he fails, now she doesn't have to risk her emotions or waste her time, because he quickly showed her he's a bitch, thus having weaker genes. But... if you're a 5'6" bald, short, fat, poor guy with a collapsed nasal cavity that makes you sound funny, a man who fears no man, no woman, no challenge and no test. If you are organized, clean, dress well, and handle a woman's tests with steady eyes, and intense body language, and you say the right things, and you challenge her back.... guess what? To a woman you're more desirable then that sexy tough guy who's really a bitch. Instantly, just because of how you stand and how you respond to her tests, you have established that it's your genes that are more desirable. Because a guy like that is attractive to other women, so he will generate offspring that are also attractive to women, who will also mate and spawn another generation, so on and so on. It all comes down to survival.

It's a little easier to explain something like this when you have over 200 pages to do it in. But that's the basics of it.

So in closing, you have to realize that the idea of "testing" cannot be removed. It's here to stay, and you can either accept it and learn to handle it, or you can give up and masturbate a lot. The truth is you can be a loser or a winner and life will go on and pretty much no one cares either way. So if you want to succeed, it's got to be for you.

So if you're reading this and thinking to yourself that it all makes a lot of sense, and you feel like you should buy the book, but are hesitant to spend money on something you feel you should have under control naturally, just realize that there was a time when you didn't know how to walk, and there was a time when you didn't know how to eat, and there is a time right now that you don't know how to walk up to a beautiful woman and have her wanting you within only a few minutes, you can buy the book and start on your journey towards becoming a confident individual who easily attracts women, or you can keep doing what you're doing and accept the amount of success (or lack of) for the rest of your life. The only person that will ever know and care... is you.

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-Kephra