What Is Kill The Crap? And how does it relate to dating?

Kill The Crap is a simple idea, the idea that you deserve more. You deserve more out of every aspect of your life. For too long we have been socially conditioned to accept what has been handed to us as if it is our only option. But no more…

While it's true, greed is a terrible thing, what I'm talking about has little to do with material things, and more with your own standards. Let's take a look at dating for both men and women and I'll explain more.

For the guys, most guys have an attitude of approach to dating that says "let me see what I can get, and then I'll try to get it all." Not only is this putting you in a position to feel like you are desperate, but it sets you up to appear less desirable in the eyes of women. Why? Because you behave as though you don't deserve more. This gets women feeling as though they can give you whatever they want, whenever they want to, and not only will you like it, but you'll do whatever they want you to in exchange for it. Sound familiar? Have you ever felt obligated to accept what a woman is giving you, even if deep down inside you weren't happy with it? Ever pay for a date, just so you could be with a girl that you honestly weren't really interested in? Ever allow yourself to get "trapped" in a relationship with a girl you barely enjoy talking to? Trust me, you're not alone.

For the ladies, most women tend to meet two or three guys who are a touch on the weakling side, and they immediately give up on the entire male population. They make little or no effort to meet the kind of guy they really want, and instead they spend their nights "out with the girls" or taking a few too many trips to the sock drawer (wink wink). It's when a woman has the attitude that she doesn't deserve more out of her dating life, that she isn't willing to get out there and interact with the population with the goal of meeting a man. What this is a double edged sword of negativity in the eyes of a man, one; you freak out when things don't go exactly as you fantasized, which means you're a little disconnected with reality, and two; you're lazy, you aren't willing to actively do you your part in the dating process and he'll be constantly dragging you like a dead weight, which repels him.

BOTH sexes have this one in common; obsessing over one person. What does this say about you? Again, you don't believe you deserve more, you don't have faith that you can just go out and find someone better out there somewhere, so you do your best to win over this one person… but what happens if it DOESN'T work out? You're stuck with nothing.

It's feeling like you HAVE to settle for whatever is given to you that causes you to date people you don't really like. It's feeling like you can't find any better anywhere else that has you spending money on crappy music. It's feeling like the world is all the same and you might as well give in that has you putting up with your spouse or significant others mistreatment towards you.

What does it all boil down to? The only way to believe you deserve more, is to start asking yourself WHY you deserve more. We've all tried to get more out of life before, but we've always gone after it with the wrong attitude. We've all tried to do something, one thing, to try and "solve" our problem. I'm sorry, but for the most part, there isn't one thing you can do to change your life. Big changes occur because of hundreds of little changes made on a daily basis. Burning your bra isn't going to make you an independent woman, it's just going to give you saggy tits when you get older. Buying a nice car won't make you an attractive man.

There is no "pill" that will make your life turn around, I'm sorry, that's just not how it works. But you deserve more, you deserve better, and you have every right to get out there and get the better things in life. A better quality of life, and a better perception of life.

So how does 'Kill The Crap' apply to dating? Killing the crap in your dating life will help you to quickly weed out the losers from the winners. Killing the crap will help you to hold your ground on the things that you believe in. Killing the crap will prevent you from being used by people. Kill the crap and you will believe in yourself and your own high value. Most people feel that believing you deserve the best is an arrogant attitude to have. But the truth is it's the only attitude that you can have if you want to be happy. Again, we're not talking about money, or cars or anything like that, we're talking about inside of you. It's about letting go, not holding back, and being who you really are, regardless of what others think. Period.

How do you Kill The Crap? Well, the first step is to ask yourself what kind of a life you want. What kind of a person do you want to be? Do you want to be a person that takes what they can get? Do you want to be a person that allows people to walk all over you, for fear of losing them all together? Do you want to be someone who is easily manipulated by people? If all of the answers to those questions were "NO" then you just completed step one. But, now ask yourself, ARE you any of those things? The next step is to take an inventory of your life, ask yourself, what needs to change? When you do this, try your best to rid yourself of your ego, and just admit your weaknesses, admit your shortcomings and you'll be one step closer to ridding yourself of them.

Once you've got your inventory set up, now it's time to think of a plan for improving your life. I've got more books on the way that detail everything you'll need to do. Right now we've got Kill The Crap In Dating: For Men, soon more titles will be ready to help you do all of the planning. But the basics of planning is to just keep things simple. If you're a jealous person, find out why you're jealous, isolate what fears are making you jealous and face those fears.

Do these things for you, so that you can live a better, more stable life, and you'll be able to focus on other, more important things in your life.

-Kill The Crap-

Sound like it makes sense right? Listen, get the book, don't procrastinate, don't talk about how you need to figure it out on your own through trial and error, don't keep putting your own needs to the side. Get the book, it'll open ur eyes, trust me.

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